You know- it's really not about race, it's about preference. And even that word "preference" poses some problems to many people "how come you prefer white men over black men?" I have no answer to that question but all I know is that my tendency to be more attracted to white men has been with me for as long as I can remember.
It does not make me any less African, Tswana or black. I can still speak my mother tongue,relate to people of my race and do the things which are exclusive to my people. I just happen to be attracted to white men too. Oh and don't get me wrong, I know a fine brother when I see one and it is not like many have not made my heart skip a beat.
It's funny the reaction I get whenever I mention this idiosyncrasy to both black and white people "gasp! really! why?" Funny how people still find such trivialities so shocking- I blame it on our history. I am sure that they'd all be equally shocked to know that I've never even dated a white guy.
About Me
- Battlemaiden
- South African, warm, adaptable, drama-free,resilient,love to laugh, hope, dream, pray,spend quality time with friends and family. I am a sister, daughter, aunt, friend, colleague, and I am single - a Journalist in the making who is going to be a light for this world.I enjoy good conversation and good company but I also like a bit of solitude.
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